( Wei Wuxian, who is still staring at this return letter with a befuddled look on his face, turns his head to then look up at Hermione in turn. )

I think I'm missing some cultural clues here.

( In fact, he's fairly sure the flower? Is some sort of offer? Likening it to his pale cheek is telling him a few things about shared concepts of beauty he can at least acknowledge, but this is... so off topic to what he was actually asking after.

He hands her the letter, reaching for the tea instead with a small shake of his head. )

Am I reading this wrong, or does she think I have, or she has, proposed?